05/19/2013 - 7:00pm

Traditionally, the gift for the 25th anniversary is silver, 30th anniversary is gold, and 60th anniversary is diamonds. For the WMU 125th Anniversary, the celebration is with cake! May 14 marked the beginning of the 125th Anniversary year for national WMU®, and it seems like each anniversary celebration involved cake or cupcakes. A few state WMU offices hosted 125th Anniversary parties this week, and photos of the events have shown 125th Anniversary cakes and people eating the cakes. National WMU had a celebration for our staff, complete with cupcakes and ice cream. The centerpiece of the celebration was a 125-inch-tall history “cake” made by one of our graphic designers. Each layer of the cake shows various aspects of the history of WMU. This tall mock cake will be a part of the 125th Anniversary celebration at the WMU Missions Celebration and Annual Meeting next month in Houston, Texas.

Missions education for children is part of the rich heritage of WMU’s 125 years. Starting from the time Sunbeams became a WMU organization in 1896, the women and men in WMU have seen the importance of instilling a missions heart within preschoolers and children. When Sunbeams became Mission Friends® in 1970, the purpose of teaching preschoolers about missions continued. Over the years in Mission Friends, countless preschoolers have learned about missions, prayed for missionaries, and given to missions. That is something for us Mission Friends leaders to celebrate!

I invite you to join the celebration of the WMU 125th Anniversary throughout this year. Take note of the Fun Facts about Mission Friends scattered within Mission Friends Leader in the Spring and Summer issues, as these give a short peek into the history of Sunbeams and Mission Friends. Starting in the Fall, the Mission Friends Rewound features in each Mission Friends Leader will give a glimpse of fun activities from the past. If you are able to come to the WMU Missions Celebration and Annual Meeting in Houston, you can celebrate at our birthday party, visit the interactive history room, and see the amazing WMU history cake. We will soon announce other plans for Mission Friends to celebrate the WMU 125th Anniversary in the coming year. In the meantime, let’s go eat some cake!

05/13/2013 - 2:33pm

How did you celebrate Mother’s Day? Did your church recognize mothers? Some churches recognized all of the children who were in attendance. Our minister of music organized a mother and child choir to lead us in worship. Some families even had 3 generations in the choir as several grandmothers joined the celebration. The palpable love in this special choir was breathtakingly beautiful.

Sunday evening, as I thought back on the events of the day, the Lord brought to mind all of our missionaries who are on the field away from their families. Celebrations like Mother’s Day can be bittersweet for them. As a Mission Friends® leader, you can use celebrations and holidays as tools to strengthen the prayer lives of your preschoolers’ families.

Please guide your families to pray regularly that the Lord will give our missionaries a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him.

You can draw on the following suggestions to give your Mission Friends’ families guidance in praying for our missionaries:

  1. On Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, pray for the missionaries and Missionary Kids (MKs) who are away from their parents. Also remember the missionaries who are away from their children. Some have adult children. Others have children in boarding school or college.

  2. While you are celebrating birthdays, remember the missionaries who are separated from their extended families. MKs who are living away from aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents may feel especially isolated.

  3. On anniversaries, pray for the marriages of our missionaries. Pray that while they are busy attending to the needs of their people groups, the Lord will provide times of rest that they might enjoy time together refreshing and strengthening their marriages. Pray for our single missionaries, too! Pray that the Lord will give them special friends and special assurances of His presence abiding with them.

  4. While you are celebrating US holidays, such as Independence Day and Thanksgiving, remember to pray for our missionaries who are adjusting to new cities, new cultures, and new languages.

  5. When you celebrate religious holidays, ask the Lord to give our missionaries an added sense of His glorious grace and mercy. Ask that He will renew their love for Him, re-energize them for the task at hand, and restore their hope and faith.

In the spirit of Ephesians 1:18–19, please guide your families to pray regularly that the Lord will give our missionaries a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him. Pray that He enlightens our missionaries’ hearts so that they will know the hope to which He has called them, and that they will be blessed by the riches of His glorious inheritance and the immeasurable power of His greatness to those who believe.

05/06/2013 - 12:38pm

What a difference a few months makes! At the beginning of this church year, all of the preschoolers in our group were new to Mission Friends®. I remember the first week when I realized none of them knew what the word missionary means. The preschoolers looked at me blankly when I talked about the missionary. I realized we needed to do a lot of explaining about missionaries and how they tell other people about Jesus.

Over the months I have continued explaining as we have learned about missionaries in North America and around the world. Our Mission Friends now realize that missionaries are in many different places. The missionaries might work in different ways, but they all tell people that God sent His Son, Jesus, because He loves us all. I can tell that it is still difficult for our preschoolers to grasp that there are people who have never heard about Jesus.

At a church fellowship a couple of weeks ago, I sat with the family of one of our Mission Friends. His mother told me that during that week, Patton had asked her about missionaries. As they were talking about missionaries, Patton asked, “Mom, do you know any missionaries?” His mother asked me if there were missionaries in our area.

I was thrilled to know that the conversation about missionaries was taking place in this Mission Friend's home. I was reminded that preschoolers learn little by little through continued conversations over the months in Mission Friends and also in their homes. This is why I like to give parents the Mission Friends at Home leaflets each month so they will be informed and able to talk with their preschooler about missionaries and their work.

Mission Friends at Home
Give parents the Mission Friends at Home leaflets so they can talk with their preschooler about missionaries and their work.

I was encouraged by this conversation with the parents in knowing that our Mission Friends have learned so much in the past several months. Through the activities, Bible thoughts, mission stories, and conversations, they have become familiar with the word missionary and what it means to be a missionary. The past several months have really made a difference in our preschoolers knowing about missions and in growing a missions heart.

04/29/2013 - 12:53pm

Several weeks ago, I had the opportunity to participate in disaster relief training sponsored by the Alabama Baptist State Board of Missions. While learning how to facilitate temporary child care in the wake of a disaster, I began to think about the unique position that the Lord has given child-care workers within the church. While teaching preschoolers about missions is our first goal, our position encompasses much more. As a Mission Friends® leader, you are given the opportunity to minister to young families holistically. You are truly on the front line.

 

  • Stay in touch with your preschoolers’ families. Make periodic phone calls or send e-mails to let them know that you are thinking of them and praying for them.

  • Look at your families as they bring their children to you. Does a parent or grandparent look tired or worried? Ask her how she is feeling. Sometimes just a hug or a simple word of encouragement is a touch from the Lord.

  • Do you have a strong-willed Mission Friend? Look for positive behaviors that you can share with that Mission Friend’s family. Praising a child’s behavior blesses his family.

  • Think about the needs of your preschoolers’ families. Is a family member sick? Is there a financial need? As you see needs within families, notify the appropriate minister within your church.

  • As you develop relationships with your preschoolers’ families, they may ask you questions about Christian counselors or resources for help. Ask your church office if they have a resource list of family ministries within the church and community. If so, ask for a copy to keep on hand. If not, perhaps you could develop a resource list yourself.

  • When your class is finished, parents may stay to talk. Listen closely to what your preschoolers’ parents are saying. Never be so busy cleaning up after class that you miss an opportunity to stop and pray with a parent or grandparent.

In short, make yourself available to the leading of the Holy Spirit and make yourself available to your Mission Friends’ families.

“If you pour yourself out for the hungry and satisfy the desire of the afflicted, then shall your light rise in the darkness and your gloom be as the noonday. And the Lord will guide you continually and satisfy your desire in scorched places and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail. And your ancient ruins shall be rebuilt; you shall raise up the foundations of many generations; you shall be called the repairer of the breach, the restorer of streets to dwell in” (Isaiah 58:10–12 ESV1).

May it be, Lord, may it be.

1Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

04/15/2013 - 8:38am

A missionary couple in Alaska was overwhelmed last summer and fall with supplies they received from children’s groups across the country. Were they featured in WMU® publications? Was it Christmas in August®? Good guesses, but the supplies actually came from Vacation Bible Schools! Missions in VBS? Yes!

Each year the Southern Baptist VBS curriculum includes a Missions class as one of the “rotation” classes for preschoolers and children. Many, many children see the videos about missionaries and participate in learning activities about missions!

Each year the Southern Baptist VBS curriculum includes a Missions class.

Sadly, though, some churches choose to leave the Missions Rotation out of their VBS, often for the sake of time. Many of us are trying to squeeze a 3-hour Bible School into a 2½-hour evening time frame, and must make choices on how to condense. But for balance in a child’s spiritual development, missions education is important, and we must consider what is lost for those children who are not given the opportunity to learn about missions and missionaries in VBS.

Some children in Bible School may have no other exposure to missions education. They may be “church children” who do not attend Mission Friends®, Girls in Action®, and Royal Ambassadors®. Or they may be children who are not connected to a church at all. Bible School may be the only time they hear about how God is using people to share His love with others in places far and near.

Some of the children in VBS may be regular members of Mission Friends, GA®, or RA®. The Missions Rotation gives them the opportunity to learn about missions in a different way or a different setting than usual. The Holy Spirit uses special ministries like camps and VBS to speak to people’s hearts in a special way. So VBS may be the place where all the things a child has learned about missions over the years comes together, as God plants the seed of a call to missions in their heart. Many children and youth make decisions in VBS each year to serve God in vocational ministry.

As children learn about missionaries, it is a great opportunity for leaders to talk to them about how our churches work together to support missions work. This foundation of understanding cooperative work and how the Cooperative Program is important for our missions efforts now and in the future. VBS can be a part of laying that foundation.

Last summer, missionaries in Alaska were blessed because VBS children learned of God’s work under the northern lights, prayed for that ministry, and sent supplies to help. The childhood and teenage years are important times for developing a heart for missions and beginning a lifestyle of mission support and participation. That starts with Mission Friends, GA, RA, and yes, even VBS!

Sue Harmon is Associate Director, Childhood Ministry, for the South Carolina Baptist Convention. Among her responsibilities is leading the state VBS team in providing training to churches throughout South Carolina. Each year, Sue sees the impact of VBS as churches report their numbers and stories from VBS. Sue is also a great sister to Joye Smith, WMU preschool consultant.

04/07/2013 - 7:00pm

Do you ever feel the need to drop everything, pick up your Bible, and just soak in God’s Word? One morning recently, as I was praying for our missionaries, I suddenly felt the need to pick up my Bible and read the account of Jesus’ birth. Every time I read Luke 2, God’s perfect plan fills me with awe. The description of the shepherds in verse 20 is so moving: “And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen.”

When we focus on the shepherds, we could focus on the difficulties of their lives. We could focus on the fact that they were away from their families. We could focus on the fact that they were often cold during the night and hot during the day. We could focus on the fact that their work was dirty and difficult, and that it often left them so tired that they couldn’t wait to spread out their cloaks on the ground at night. And then, we could focus on the fact that they didn’t even have a bed!

Does that sound similar to the way that we describe our missionaries’ lives? Do we focus more on what our missionaries have given up, instead of what they have gained, by following Jesus? Our missionaries’ lives may be quite different from ours. They may live far from their families. They may live in places that sound and look different. It is certainly not an easy life. But, it is the life that God has called them to, and there is great joy in living out His calling.

Kathmandu, Nepal
Missionaries may live in places that sound and look different.

We need to be intentional in communicating the joy of following God’s plan when we pray for our missionaries and share their stories with our preschoolers.

  • Engage preschoolers’ excitement by showing pictures of the different parts of God’s beautiful world that the missionaries have the opportunity to see.

Ecuador sheep
Show pictures of the different parts of God’s beautiful world.

 

  • Help preschoolers connect by discussing how much fun it must be to meet new friends in different cultures and to share in their lives.

 

  • Spark preschoolers’ imaginations as you talk about the many ways missionaries help others because of the love of Jesus.

  • Kindle a passion for missions as you help your preschoolers consider the joy of telling another person that Jesus loves him.

Think back to the shepherds. Did they sing? Did they dance? Did they shout? This much I do know, when the shepherds saw Jesus, their lives were forever changed. Their faces had to be radiant. Whenever we glorify and praise God for all that we hear and see about our missionaries’ work, it should change our faces. I can promise you that it will change our hearts!

03/31/2013 - 7:00pm

I have recently led several conference sessions on Project HELPSM: Human Exploitation for preschool and children’s leaders. In a way, these are easy conferences to teach because leaders appreciate anything I can give them about using these tough issues with preschoolers and children. The conferences are difficult to lead because the issues within human exploitation are not easy to confront. Most of the leaders choose to attend this conference topic because they want practical ideas for using the issues of human exploitation with ones so young. They want to know, “What can I do with the preschoolers in my church?”

RRRCD
Lead the Mission Friends teachers in your church to do the Bible study
for an issue from 
Release, Restore, Redeem

I encourage preschool and children’s leaders to focus on three of the issues of Project HELP: Human Exploitation: Bullying, Media Exploitation of Children and Families, and Exploitation of Natural Resources for Personal Gain. Here are a few practical things you can do with preschoolers for each of these issues.

Bullying
Teach preschoolers how to work with others in order to prevent bullying.

  • Focus on Bible stories about people who were kind. The four friends (Mark 2:1–12), the Shunemite woman (2 Kings 4:8–13), and Jesus loved the children (Mark 10:13–16) are just a few stories in the Bible about people who were kind.

  • Do activities with preschoolers that help them develop listening skills. Being able to listen well is linked to showing respect to others. Ideas include clapping rhythms, singing motion songs, or telling a sound story in which preschoolers make a certain sound when they hear a word in the story.

  • Do Helping Others activities with preschoolers. They will see that other people have needs, and their understanding and empathy for others will increase. Consider making cards for adults or children in a special needs ministry, visiting a nursing home, or making treat bags for international students in an ESL ministry.

Media Exploitation of Children and Families
Help families in balancing media usage and keeping children safe while using media.

 

  • Encourage families to keep a log of screen usage for one week (TV, tablets, or computers). Invite families to a “screen free” night at church at the end of the week in which fun activities are planned for families.

  • Invite an expert to teach a session for parents on keeping children safe online.

  • Use safety controls on all devices used in preschool classrooms and visit all Internet sites before using them with preschoolers.

Exploitation of Natural Resources for Personal Gain
Help preschoolers learn that when we use natural resources in a selfish way, we may be causing harm to others.

  • Use the Nature interest area to teach preschoolers about God’s creation and taking care of His world. Add and change nature items often to keep preschoolers’ interest and curiosity.

  • Have preschoolers decorate blank canvas bags for their families to use as reusable shopping bags.

  • Plan a “field trip” in which parents and preschoolers meet you at a local recycling center.

Take one of these issues and place your focus in that area. Lead the Mission Friends teachers in your church to do the Bible study for that issue from Release, Restore, Redeem. Guide Mission Friends® leaders to decide on the actions you will take along with preschoolers and their families. Ask for God’s direction as you teach preschoolers to live out Jesus’ words in Matthew 22:37–39 to love God and love others.

 

03/24/2013 - 7:00pm

He pushes against his mom and desperately fights her attempts to shove him over the threshold into your classroom. Do you have a Mission Friend who doesn’t want to be your friend? One who sits when he should stand, and stands when he should sit? Who talks incessantly in group time, yet refuses to speak during a game?

grumpy child

Remember that a strong will and determination are actually
leadership qualities when they are channeled correctly.

How can we handle these preschoolers? Perhaps a better question is how can we help them? Don’t yield to the temptation to assume that a child is incorrigible or that her parents are inept. Think and pray about how you can assist this child to improve her behavior.

  • Look for patterns. Does his misbehavior start before class begins or when he should sit for group time? He may need extra activities because he’s bored. Does he lose control while playing in an interest area? The busyness of his classmates may distract him. Try offering him a book or a puzzle in a quiet spot.

  • Develop a plan. When unacceptable behavior begins, move closer. First, make eye contact. If the behavior continues, move closer and then a little closer. If the behavior persists, gently lay your hand on her shoulder. Closer proximity often solves problems. The next step is to firmly, but kindly, suggest ways she can redirect her behavior.

  • Ensure that she understands your expectations. This may be her first experience in a structured classroom environment. Explain your expectations in simple terms. As needed, patiently explain them again, and again. Frame your directions positively. Instead of loudly saying, “Don’t talk during group time,” lower your voice and say, “It’s time to listen.”

  • Make sure that your expectations are appropriate. Familiarize yourself with the developmental characteristics of preschoolers. Chapter 5, “Who are Preschoolers” in Mission Friends Guide for Leaders is a great resource.

  • Remember that a strong will and determination are actually leadership qualities when they are channeled correctly. Ask your strong-willed preschooler to help you. Don’t forget to thank him for helping. Positive reinforcement goes a long way.

  • Know your preschoolers and their families. Has something changed? Is there a new sibling? Are mom and dad having financial or marital issues? Has the family moved? Has there been a death? These are major stressors. Preschoolers have not yet developed appropriate coping skills. Maybe your busy Mission Friend just needs a little extra love and attention.

Lamentations 3:22–23 tells us the Lord’s love is steadfast and His mercies are unending. In fact, His mercies are new every morning. Above all else, remember to exhibit grace and mercy and forgiveness, and remind your Mission Friends® frequently that you love them with a steadfast love.

03/17/2013 - 7:00pm

Is missions just a culture lesson? In Mission Friends® we teach many different aspects about cultures, but Mission Friends is so much more than simply a culture lesson for our preschoolers. Everything we teach should have the purpose of leading preschoolers to learn more about God’s desire for all people to know and worship Him.

Teaching about customs and different cultures is fun, and makes Mission Friends so exciting for preschoolers. My Mission Friends come running in the classroom, asking what we are going to do that evening. There is always something new that we do, and something new they learn about people in the different places we study. In Mission Friends we do activities related to the weather, dress, food, language, houses, churches, and games of people in different places. As we teach these aspects of culture, we need to be mindful to use these as tools to teach about missions work in various places. We teach these aspects so preschoolers will learn of different ways missionaries use to tell the people where they live about Jesus. Missionaries in Alaska will share Christ with people in different ways than missionaries in Burkina Faso.

Each month as you teach Mission Friends, read Meet the Missionaries in Mission Friends Leader to find out about the missionaries’ work. Read the Missions Focus page on the Web site. As you do activities related to the culture in the missions area, relate the activity to the missionaries and their work. Sometimes an activity relates to an aspect of the mission story for that session. Be familiar enough with the story that you can tell a part of the story with the activity. As preschoolers are involved in learning about the culture, place an emphasis on the people of that culture. Tell preschoolers of the people who need to hear about Jesus and His love. Use the Bible thought, Tell people about Jesus (see Matt. 28:19), to explain this is what the missionaries do in each place.

Each month as you teach Mission Friends, read Meet the Missionaries in Mission Friends Leader to find out about the missionaries’ work. 

In Mission Friends preschoolers learn about cultures and customs within North America and around the world. The world is an interesting place, and we want to present various cultures in engaging ways. Make each session count by using cultural-learning activities as missions-learning activities. Each session is not just a cultural lesson, but a way of instilling a missions heart in preschoolers.

03/10/2013 - 7:00pm

While traveling to work last week, I listened to Alistair Begg teach about the importance of prayer. Pastor Begg asked a question that has continued to weigh on my heart, “Do you consider prayer a fundamental part of your life, or are you treating it as a supplemental part of your life?” While I consider prayer fundamental in my life, this question has made me wonder if I am teaching my Mission Friends® the value of our prayer ministry for missionaries. Am I emphasizing prayer during Mission Friends, or am I treating prayer as just another activity that we add into our class time?

preschooler praying
In Homeliving, encourage your preschoolers to pray for the missionaries and their families who may live far away from them.

In the Mission Friends classroom, our interest areas provide the perfect context for ensuring that prayer for missionaries becomes central to each session.

  • In the Books area, pray with your preschoolers that the missionaries will have an opportunity to share Bible stories with people. Ask God to provide missionaries with the resources they need to supply people with Bibles, tracts, and other Christian literature.

  • In the Blocks area, as your preschoolers build a city, pray for the city where your missionary lives. If the preschoolers are building a model transportation system, pray that the Lord will allow our missionaries time to share His love with people who use public transportation in their cities. Pray, too, that the Lord will give safe travel to missionaries who are frequently on the go.

  • In Homeliving, encourage your preschoolers to pray for the missionaries and their families who may live far away from them. If the missionaries have children, the Homeliving area is an opportune place to help preschoolers understand how every member of a missionary family is involved in the work of missions. Pray for missionary kids who are living and learning in diverse environments around the world.

  • In the Art and Music areas, teach your preschoolers to pray for worship services that missionaries are leading in different cultures. Pray that wherever the missionaries’ worship services are taking place, people will listen to the Bible stories and understand who Jesus is.

  • While playing games, or while exploring items in the Nature area, preschoolers can pray that our missionaries will have opportunities for rest and recreation. You can remind your preschoolers that missionaries need times of rest so that they can accomplish the important jobs that God has called them to do.

As Mission Friends leaders, everything we do during class time sets an example for our preschoolers. We frequently talk about looking for teachable moments. Can you imagine how our missions effort will be impacted if we begin looking for “prayable” moments, too?

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